Guys, here is how you keep the muffler on the car. I still have the original muffler that came with my car from 1994...
Since the header contacts the frame rail and the frame horns are flexing it is moving/twisting the header.
So, the header tubes are twisting and the muffler isn't because it is mounted on all four tubes and the tab breaks off.
NEVER, NEVER tighten the two tabs together. I use a 1/4x1" bolt and then I use two nuts and lock them together, double nut, at the very end of the bolt.
The tabs can float as the header twists and the muffler tabs will not break off as easily.
I would also recommended, if possible since USLCI started having the muffler made overseas, to add another tab doubling up the thickness. They reduced the tab thickness from what the Borla header/muffler had.
The Borla has tab thickness of 1/8" and then they had S&S make some as well and they used a doubled up .080" making the tabs thickness .160". I do not have new muffler here right now but I think they are the .080" thick and that is not heavy enough material. I do beef up the weld of the tabs at the weld joint on the new parts as well as they do not have enough material there and the actual tube can break away too.
But, the loose mounting is the biggest thing that will prevent the breakage.
Randy - RPM